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As someone who has always been a hard worker, the last thing Ken Sims wanted to do when he retired was sit at home and “become a cucumber or a couch potato.”

To try and stay active, Ken had a browse online for volunteer jobs available and found a listing seeking a part-time driver for someone with Alzheimer’s. Although he’d had limited exposure to dementia previously, a friend of his with dementia had recently passed away. Ken also suspects that his grandfather may have had dementia, but this was during an era where symptoms of what we now know to be dementia were simply chalked up to someone “being senile.”

With these prior experiences with dementia in mind, the driver job appealed to Ken and he thought it would be a worthy cause to be involved with. It wasn’t long after putting his name forward that Ken found himself volunteering three days a week, signing up for a range of activities to support people with dementia, including volunteering with walking groups in Blockhouse Bay, One Tree Hill (now disbanded) and now Henderson.

Whilst very satisfying, Ken has found that helping out with people who have dementia can be emotionally challenging. “The sad fact with dementia is that there’s decline all the time,” Ken laments. “It can be quite emotionally draining seeing it happen to someone you’ve known for two or three years.”

However, Ken’s happy that his contributions have helped people with dementia to live well with dementia and maintain a healthy lifestyle. He’s noticed that some people with dementia can become quite withdrawn, so the walking groups he’s involved with finish with a chat over a cup of coffee – giving everyone the chance to socialise.

Though many have benefited from Ken’s volunteering, he has also found his contributions very rewarding on a personal level. “It gets me out and about, I get to see things through other people’s eyes. We talk about all sorts of situations, things we see on the news – even politics occasionally!” Ken takes immense pride in hearing feedback from partners of some of the people with dementia for whom he volunteers, telling him about how they value the friendship he’s made with them. 

It’s obvious that volunteering is a rewarding experience for Ken; one can only imagine how grateful the people Ken has supported are for his service!

 

Our Countdown Annual Appeal is just around the corner, taking place over the final weekend in June. Each year, this appeal helps raise thousands of dollars for Dementia Auckland – donations which allow us to continue helping people with dementia across New Zealand’s largest city.

A fundraiser as large as this one can only be successful with the support of volunteers from all over Auckland. You don’t need superpowers to be our hero; just a couple of hours of your time and a cheerful smile can help raise the funds we need to keep supporting Aucklanders. We have had a lot of assistance in the past from people who have benefited from our work in the community. 

Richard says “Having watched Gran suffer with dementia and the stresses put on Mum looking after her, I wanted to do something to help others with in the same situation. Not only for those with the disease but also the families and carers affected. What if that $5 collected in that extra 10 minutes helps train someone to better look after their elderly parent? It's all worthwhile, always.”

Last year our amazing volunteers raised thousands of dollars that provide much-needed keyworker support. With that money we were able to help out people like Richard and their families. This year, hundreds of volunteers will be out collecting on our behalf from Thursday June 28 – Sunday July 1.

Make sure you say hi to our amazing volunteers while they’re out and about next weekend – and if you haven’t signed up to volunteer yet, we may still have a few spots that need filling! Contact if you can help.

     

 

 

At Dementia Auckland, we’re lucky to have the support of some fantastic and knowledgeable people – among them, Angela Caughey. Having been supported by Dementia Auckland during her husband’s long time living with Lewy body dementia (LBD), Angela now gives back to the organisation with not just her time, but also the proceeds from her books about dealing with dementia.

Her first book, Dealing Daily with Dementia, was extremely popular among carers looking for practical, real-life advice. Her follow-up book, which launched on Thursday May 10th, dives into how to communicate with someone living with dementia.

“I had worked in marriage guidance for many years and we’d studied communication,” shares Angela. “It is immensely complicated – an enormous amount of it isn’t even talking, it’s body language so that communicating with someone who has dementia can be extremely challenging.”

Her publisher asked her to put together a book focusing on communication, thinking the book might take two months to put together. 22 months later, after much work by the two of them, it was finally finished!

“The challenge was knowing what to put first – how to speak effectively, how to listen sensitively, how to interpret body language.

“The book covers all stages – for family members, spouses, and professional carers. A point made early on is that sometimes you end up having to care for someone you don’t always like. They can be difficult and can turn you off. As a carer, you have to take on the role of a hospital nurse – loving, cheerful, and kind. You roleplay every day when taking care of someone with dementia.”

Angela’s top tips for communication include:

  • Keep questions to a minimum
  • Use positive language, not negative language
  • Respect the person who has dementia
  • Avoid correcting them, and avoid using figures of speech (saying ‘hop in the car and we’ll hit the road’ can be very confusing to someone who has forgotten what those colloquialisms mean)
  • Allow for pauses in conversation – sometimes they just need a little time to get their brain into action
  • Be aware of the person you’re communicating with. Watch them: their body language, posture, facial expression, and especially their eyes.

‘How to communicate with someone who has dementia: A guide for carers’ is a hugely valuable book with an immense amount of practical guidance for carers of people with dementia. Not only will it help you significantly improve the way you communicate with people who have dementia, but royalties from sales of the book will come directly to Dementia Auckland.

 

Please order your copy directly from Calico Publishing
RRP $35 + $5 delivery in New Zealand
Email: 
Phone: 09 624 5674
Website: http://calicopublishing.co.nz/book/communicate-someone-dementia/

 

Prior to 2007, Paul Cassidy knew very little about dementia. His experience was limited to the sort of things you pick up watching TV and reading magazine articles – knowledge you absorb without really intending to. This all changed when, in the space of a few years, both Paul’s mum and dad developed dementia.

The varying onsets of dementia

Paul, originally from the UK, was living in Amsterdam when his mother, Orita, suffered an unexpected stroke in 2007. Orita had always been a mentally very sharp woman and although Paul recalls that she initially had still seemed quite “with it” after the stroke, he and his family noticed that she had started to say odd things from time to time. A second stroke and a dementia diagnosis followed soon after, at which point she started to age rapidly in Paul’s eyes. Orita sadly passed away in 2010.

Though Paul’s mum’s dementia came along suddenly, the opposite was true for his dad, Colm. It was during his mother’s final years that Paul ,and his sister Sharon, began to understand dementia more and recognised some signs of it in their father. Colm worked as a taxi driver in Kent, England, and prided himself on his knowledge of the local roads. It came as a surprise to Paul when Colm requested a voice recorder – so that he could record instructions from the dispatcher, and a Sat Nav GPS. It was small things like these that, although seemingly innocuous, were all signs of things to come.

Though it was evident to Paul and his family that something was happening to Colm, most outside observers would rarely notice any changes. Like his wife, Colm started to say things that were out of place and his memory would sometimes lapse, but otherwise he was absolutely fine most of the time. Unfortunately these small disruptions were enough to make life tricky for Colm.

A change in independence

From a young age, Colm had been fiercely independent, leaving his home in Ireland at 11 to start earning a living. Understandably, he wasn’t comfortable with any sort of dementia diagnosis – he didn’t want to lose the independence he’d valued for so long, which made things difficult for Paul and the rest of the family. Even something as simple as going for a walk around the block could be a challenge for Colm. 9 times out of 10 he would have no issues, but on that tenth occasion Colm could completely forget how to get home – even though he’d walked the streets many times before. As Colm baulked at the idea that his memory was failing him, it was tough for Paul and his sister to prevent this problem. Going through directions a number of times didn’t ease the issue, so they had to settle on an alternative: “We hid a card with dad’s address in his wallet, in case someone found him looking lost”.

Though Colm has somewhat come to terms with his diagnosis now, life still has just as many challenges: “Dad can sometimes run into someone in the street who recognises him, but he has no clue who they are.” It’s events like these that have put a dent in Colm’s confidence – things he used to find trivial can now be exceptionally challenging. Paul has found that people are very understanding of Colm’s condition, but that doesn’t mean Colm likes to share it with other people; he still finds it somewhat embarrassing. This embarrassment has caused Colm to withdraw from a variety of social events. Although Colm has been willing to go out with Paul, his family, and some of his closest friends, he finds it tough to socialise with others who he isn’t quite as close with – though that doesn’t stop him from popping down to the pub at lunch to have a meal with some of his mates.

Helping people with dementia to live well

Paul and his wife, Dorothy, were on the cusp of moving to New Zealand from Amsterdam in 2007 but put off their move due to Orita’s stroke. They remained in the Netherlands and visited home as often as they could, but also did little things to help raise money for dementia organisations. Dorothy would make a lot of craft objects, and sell them at craft markets to raise money, and they even used the Queen’s Day holiday in Amsterdam, to set up a stall outside their apartment. The money would go to various dementia and Alzheimer charities in the UK.

A few years later, after Orita had passed away, a new job opportunity meant that Paul and Dorothy once again had the chance to relocate to New Zealand. With Dad's condition, they were unsure whether they could go, but since he had moved closer to Paul's sister, with her support they were able to make the move and departed the Northern Hemisphere and set up in Auckland.

Paul and Dorothy have continued to make a difference to others with dementia since moving to New Zealand. Recently Paul set up a Give A Little page to raise money for Dementia Auckland, completing a five kilometre fun run in Orewa in exchange for donations. “I’ve never been the most active person in the office”, laughs Paul, which probably contributed to how he was able to raise almost $300.

New challenges from afar

Living on the other side of the world and trying to communicate with your relatives can be hard enough for the average person, but the difficulties of the situation are magnified when one of those relatives has dementia.

Like many, Paul and his dad communicate frequently via Skype. Whilst talking your parents through logging into their account and setting up a call can be a struggle for everyone, these issues crop up more regularly for Paul. Operating a computer or tablet can be challenging at the best of times, and sometimes Paul needs to ask his sister to pop over to his dad’s place to fix up the tablet – luckily she lives just around the corner from Colm. For a long period of time, Paul’s dad was able to use a customised tablet which only had Skype installed, which was very easy for him to navigate: “Dad just had to turn the tablet on and click on my picture to call me.” Sadly, the company that produced these stripped-back tablets has ceased trading, but Paul and Colm still manage. 

Since the onset of dementia, Paul and his sister’s relationship with his dad has flipped completely. Whilst Colm was once the guardian in the relationship, now they have to make the decisions concerning what’s best for their dad. The only difference, as Paul wryly amends, is that “children will automatically accept their parent’s authority” – something Colm isn’t quite yet ready for!

It’s time for our Countdown Annual Appeal once again, which is coming up at the end of June. Each year, this appeal helps raise thousands of dollars for Dementia Auckland – donations which allow us to continue helping people with dementia across New Zealand’s largest city. 

A fundraiser as large as this one relies on the power of volunteers from all over Auckland. You don’t need superpowers to be our hero; just a couple of spare hours and a friendly smile can help raise the funds we need to keep going. Are you in Auckland and interested in being a volunteer for people with dementia and Alzheimer's?

Janet – Volunteer for the Dementia Auckland Countdown Appeal

 

“My husband had vascular dementia and Dementia Auckland was wonderful. I so much appreciate and valued all the support and encouragement and information and understanding that we received while Charles was coping with the dementia. I’m more than happy to collect – it’s one way I can support the ongoing work that supports other people who find themselves in the same place we did.”

Being part of our valued volunteer collector family enables Dementia Auckland to help people like Janet and Charles get the support they need. Last year our amazing volunteers raised thousands of dollars that provide much-needed keyworker support. That's why Janet's collecting – why will you?

Can you offer 2 hours of your time at your local Countdown across Auckland between June 28-July 1st? If you or anyone you know can collect, please get in touch with Courtney on or 09 551 2100.

 

Volunteers across Auckland give up two hours of their time during the Dementia Auckland Countdown Appeal

 

 

 

 

Have you registered for our Luxury Ladies Luncheon yet?

This fun event is only one week away and it's going to be one of our best yet!
 
We're proud to say that our speaker for the Luxury Ladies Luncheon, Billie Jordan is not only the founder of The Hip Op-eration Crew, but she is also:
  • New Zealand Woman of the Year - Next Magazine, Oct 2016
  • MNZM (Member of the NZ Order of Merit by Her Majesty the Queen), 2016
  • New Zealander of the Year - Local Hero Category, 2015
  • Winner of the International Paul Harris Award, Rotary International, 2014
  • Winner of the Outstanding Community Service Award, 2013

Billie was recently featured on Stuff, and will be talking alongside Associate Professor Lynette Tippett next Thursday. Don't miss out – register at www.bit.ly/luxuryladieslunch now! 

We hope you've been making the most of summer (when it hasn't been raining!) and spending some time in the great outdoors.

We're anticipating some equally as lovely autumn weather in the near future and we'd love for you to join us for one more outdoor activity before you put those sneakers into hibernation – and of course it's all for a great cause!
 
 
Taking place on Sunday March 25th, Walk for Dementia is a free 5km walk from the gorgeous Mission Bay to St Heliers and back – the perfect opportunity for a stroll with family and friends.
 
Come anytime from 8.30 to get amongst the excitement, and stick around afterwards for even more fun. There will be refreshments and entertainment to enjoy in the fresh air with your friends and family – and plenty of opportunities to donate to Dementia Auckland, or challenge your friends or family to help you fundraise.
 
As well as the pride of fundraising for a great organisation, your support will mean that even more people affected by dementia in your community can access our services.
 

It’s free to sign up, so don't miss out – register with your family or friends now.

 

  A huge thank you to The Coffee Club Mission Bay for all their support – pop in and grab a coffee before your walk for a quick pick-me-up!

 

Do you have a bit of an inner drama kid? Has that artistic quality been passed down to your literal drama kids? Well, a 2018 Season Family Pass for Tim Bray Productions might be the perfect gift for you and your lovably dramatic family this year. With four productions over the course of this year, this pass allows two adults and two children to attend every single one. Tim Bray Productions is Auckland’s leading theatre when it comes to children (and children at heart, let’s be real), with their 2018 season kicking off with Pippi Longstocking. Treat your family to a year of the arts, it’s the gift that keeps on giving. 

 

A pot of gold at the end of the rainbow? How dull. We prefer the version where there’s roller coasters and go-carts instead. With two adult and two child Rainbows End Superpasses, you’ll have family fun day beyond sussed! Grab the kids on a bright sunny day, and get amongst the thrills, shows, and colourful fun that Auckland’s favourite theme park has to offer. With a Superpass, your whole family is entitled to unlimited rides all day long to ensure that optimum levels of fun are achieved, and you leave with a car full of sleepy eyes and smiling faces.